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category:  Family

Is there a way out of disaster?

I tried to obey the commandments of the Torah and live rightly, but God brings many misfortunes and disasters into my life. I prayed to God for peace and happiness, but God always disappointed me and saddened me with calamities for a decade. I always feel ashamed of my life and feel lonely and not happy. I often think why I should honor a God who gives me sorrow and disaster. I wonder if I am being cursed by God.




Segulot for becoming pregnant:

  • First and foremost, one should be careful to practice the laws of family purity (Taharat Hamishpacha) accurately, including a review of the halachot.

  • Married women should cover their hair with a head covering such as a scarf or a hat, or ideally, a wig, according to Chabad custom.

  • In addition to the above, look back and try to remember if you offended anyone when you were dating, and if you did, appease him and ask for forgiveness.

  • Invite guests to your home.

  • Study Chassidus

  • Support places of Torah learning.

  • On the practical level, it would be advisable to get expert medical counseling and support in accordance with Jewish law from an organization that deals with this issue specifically, such as Machon Puah.



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