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What is the guideline for choosing material for the shiur?

The Rav Name: Rabbi Yitzchak Arad

The rule of thumb is to adapt the shiur material to the target audience we intend to teach. The lecturer should identify the type of audience being addressed, the audience’s capabilities openness to accepting your message. This information is used to adjust the level of the material so that it can be understood and properly grasped. Nonetheless, it is worth emphasizing an important issue that is sometimes ignored: experience teaches us that we can create an intimate and long-lasting connection with most people when the ideas being taught are profound and innovative.

All too often, those presenting Hassidic shiurs look for “vorts” – short, light ideas, stories, and so on – thinking that everyone should be able to connect with those ideas, and wouldn’t feel it is beyond their level. However, the truth is that plain and simple material may work for a one-time shiur, but when we want to create a long-term series of shiurs, we will need to take into account that there are certain types of individuals who are generally serious and have a high level of comprehension. They won’t continue attending the shiurs if they don’t feel that this material is profound and innovative.

Even if the first shiur was captivating, and even if the audience seemed to have enjoyed it, if they leave it feeling that they hadn’t taken in anything profound, but rather just some light material that they could have learned at home or read in a book, it is less likely that those people will come back for another shiur.

Even if you have a good sense of humor and you have managed to get a laugh out of your audience, or even “crack them up”, remember that the ultimate goal of this session was not to make people laugh or enjoy a few jokes. They have plenty of opportunities to do just that elsewhere. That isn’t why they came to a shiur in chassidus, which is supposed to speak to their inner selves and touch their souls. In just a short while, they will perceive the experience as superfluous and unimaginative.

However, if they see that the material is serious and profound, even if they don’t always understand or fully grasp your ideas (either because the speaker is ineffective, or because they are unable to grasp these concepts), you will challenge your audience to keep attending, especially if you’ve used a respectful approach, as mentioned earlier.

Undoubtedly, the more serious and profound your material, the more effort you’ll have to expend in preparing it, so that you’ll truly be able to deliver the shuir clearly and properly. Still, the principle is not to shy away from teaching chassidus with a profound approach, and include concepts and abstract ideas, even when teaching people who, at first, may seem quite removed.

The very depth of the material and your ability to explain abstract concepts are what will create a serious study framework for serious people.

In this context, it is worthwhile mentioning a sicha by the Rebbe during Simchas Torah of 5711 (as related in Toras Menachem Hisvaduyos, 5711, Part 1, pp. 40 until the end):

Apparently, people could claim that we should be calling on people to lay tefillin, keep Shabbos, and so on, instead of talking about chassidus, especially the more profound ideas within the realm of chassidus, such as the concept of the eternal worlds above the world of atzilus, describing the difference between bitul (selflessness) in the world of atzilus and bitul in the eternal worlds above atzilus. The revelation of chassidus, they continue, occurred so that we could attain love and reverence (as the Rambam wrote: ‘What is the way to loving and revering [Him]? By contemplating Him.’). This is how the Torah and the mitzvos will merit to rise up [to heaven], since “Torah devoid of love and reverence does not rise up [to heaven]”. How, then, is the revelation of chassidus connected to the situation in which we need to call on others and take action regarding the performance of Torah and the mitzvos?

We know what the saintly Rebbe Rashav of blessed memory wrote in his well-known letter, which was printed in the preface to the Kuntres Umaayan: “Now is the time of the last commentaries of the end of the galus…no, there is now a set order in how the tikkunim and berurim (commentaries) are made. In any case we must discuss everything, since we don’t know what is in the sod of the berurim.

Furthermore, although the revelation of Chassidus was designed to lead to love and reverence, Chassidus was not revealed to the generations of the rishonim (which were more closely associated with issues of love and reverence). It was “was concealed during their days, and was unknown to all of the talmidey chachamim, except for certain exceptional individuals.” That is, except for the recent generations, immediately before the coming of mashiach. There are two reasons for this:

1. Since the darkest of the dark prevail during recent generations, there is a need to illuminate and cancel out this great darkness through the greatest light of all.
2. The closer we approach the days of mashiach, when the inner nature of Torah is completely revealed, we need this kind of preparation through spreading the wellsprings outward.

From this, we can understand that with regard to our discussion as well, when faced with a destitute time and situation, and when we need to call on others and take action to perform Torah and mitzvos, this action needs to come about through studying chassidus as well. To the contrary – since the study of chassidus is tied to the idea of supreme teshuva (teshuva ila’a), it is how one can advance to a state and situation that is incomparable to the state and situation one was in previously.




Swept off my feet at the wedding

 

Shalom and thank you for your interesting question! We have not found an original written source for the custom of dancing with a broom at the wedding, but the custom does indeed exist. There is evidence of this custom being kept in various Chassidic and other communities.

 

It says in Isaiah 14:23 “And I will make it for a heritage of hedgehogs and pools of water, and I shall sweep it away with a broom of destruction, says the L-rd of Hosts.”

There is a source which documents that there was a custom among Jews in Jerusalem that when parents reach the stage of marrying off their youngest child, it is a sign that they have been saved from this terrible curse which the prophet refers to, and therefore of course there is more reason than ever to rejoice, and thus a dance with a broom is performed to thank G-d for His kindness, transforming the broom of doom to a broom of blessing. It is worth pointing out here that when it comes to prophecies, although unfortunately many negative prophecies have been fulfilled, Maimonides (also known as Rambam) teaches that this does not have to be the case, but positive prophecies must eventually be fulfilled. We see this in the story of Rabbi Akivah after the destruction of the Temple. He was walking near the ruins of the Temple with other sages, and they saw a fox darting in and out among the ruins. The other sages began to cry, because they saw a negative prophecy being fulfilled, while Rabbi Akiva, laughed. They asked him why he was laughing, and he asked them why they were crying? When they told him their reason, he explained that if they saw a negative prophecy being fulfilled, how much more so would all the positive prophecies concerning the rebuilding of Jerusalem occur! May this happen speedily in our days! In another story of prophecy, the prophet Jonah was disturbed because after his difficult adventures in reaching Nineveh, he had prophesied destruction and it did not happen, because the population of Nineveh actually accepted Jonah’s rebuke and repented, thus averting the harsh decree. Jonah however was concerned that people would think that he was a false prophet, (this could perhaps lead to a desecration of G-d’s name,) but G-d explained to Jonah that since the people repented, He was able to have mercy on them.

 

I have seen an article on the subject which tells of flowery wreaths being placed on the heads of the parents who are marrying off their youngest when the broom dance is performed, and according to that article, this could possibly be a custom that Ukrainian Jews adopted from their non-Jewish Ukrainian neighbours. It is unlikely to have a Jewish source, since in ancient pagan cultures flowery wreaths were used, and Jews are enjoined by the Torah to cleave to the Torah way of life and not adopt pagan customs.

 

The most important thing is indeed to celebrate joyous occasions like weddings, Bar and Bat mitzvahs, Brisses etc., in a spirit of true joy, with gratitude to G-d for the kindness He has shown in enabling us to reach these milestones. As it says in Psalms 100:2 “Worship the L-rd in joy, come before Him in song…” Worship the L-rd means to serve G-d according to the commandments that are laid out in His Torah, so the more we study the Torah and try to keep the commandments, the more our celebrations will reflect true joy
wish you many happy and unjoyful moments.

 

 


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