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What is the guideline for choosing material for the shiur?

The Rav Name: Rabbi Yitzchak Arad

The rule of thumb is to adapt the shiur material to the target audience we intend to teach. The lecturer should identify the type of audience being addressed, the audience’s capabilities openness to accepting your message. This information is used to adjust the level of the material so that it can be understood and properly grasped. Nonetheless, it is worth emphasizing an important issue that is sometimes ignored: experience teaches us that we can create an intimate and long-lasting connection with most people when the ideas being taught are profound and innovative.

All too often, those presenting Hassidic shiurs look for “vorts” – short, light ideas, stories, and so on – thinking that everyone should be able to connect with those ideas, and wouldn’t feel it is beyond their level. However, the truth is that plain and simple material may work for a one-time shiur, but when we want to create a long-term series of shiurs, we will need to take into account that there are certain types of individuals who are generally serious and have a high level of comprehension. They won’t continue attending the shiurs if they don’t feel that this material is profound and innovative.

Even if the first shiur was captivating, and even if the audience seemed to have enjoyed it, if they leave it feeling that they hadn’t taken in anything profound, but rather just some light material that they could have learned at home or read in a book, it is less likely that those people will come back for another shiur.

Even if you have a good sense of humor and you have managed to get a laugh out of your audience, or even “crack them up”, remember that the ultimate goal of this session was not to make people laugh or enjoy a few jokes. They have plenty of opportunities to do just that elsewhere. That isn’t why they came to a shiur in chassidus, which is supposed to speak to their inner selves and touch their souls. In just a short while, they will perceive the experience as superfluous and unimaginative.

However, if they see that the material is serious and profound, even if they don’t always understand or fully grasp your ideas (either because the speaker is ineffective, or because they are unable to grasp these concepts), you will challenge your audience to keep attending, especially if you’ve used a respectful approach, as mentioned earlier.

Undoubtedly, the more serious and profound your material, the more effort you’ll have to expend in preparing it, so that you’ll truly be able to deliver the shuir clearly and properly. Still, the principle is not to shy away from teaching chassidus with a profound approach, and include concepts and abstract ideas, even when teaching people who, at first, may seem quite removed.

The very depth of the material and your ability to explain abstract concepts are what will create a serious study framework for serious people.

In this context, it is worthwhile mentioning a sicha by the Rebbe during Simchas Torah of 5711 (as related in Toras Menachem Hisvaduyos, 5711, Part 1, pp. 40 until the end):

Apparently, people could claim that we should be calling on people to lay tefillin, keep Shabbos, and so on, instead of talking about chassidus, especially the more profound ideas within the realm of chassidus, such as the concept of the eternal worlds above the world of atzilus, describing the difference between bitul (selflessness) in the world of atzilus and bitul in the eternal worlds above atzilus. The revelation of chassidus, they continue, occurred so that we could attain love and reverence (as the Rambam wrote: ‘What is the way to loving and revering [Him]? By contemplating Him.’). This is how the Torah and the mitzvos will merit to rise up [to heaven], since “Torah devoid of love and reverence does not rise up [to heaven]”. How, then, is the revelation of chassidus connected to the situation in which we need to call on others and take action regarding the performance of Torah and the mitzvos?

We know what the saintly Rebbe Rashav of blessed memory wrote in his well-known letter, which was printed in the preface to the Kuntres Umaayan: “Now is the time of the last commentaries of the end of the galus…no, there is now a set order in how the tikkunim and berurim (commentaries) are made. In any case we must discuss everything, since we don’t know what is in the sod of the berurim.

Furthermore, although the revelation of Chassidus was designed to lead to love and reverence, Chassidus was not revealed to the generations of the rishonim (which were more closely associated with issues of love and reverence). It was “was concealed during their days, and was unknown to all of the talmidey chachamim, except for certain exceptional individuals.” That is, except for the recent generations, immediately before the coming of mashiach. There are two reasons for this:

1. Since the darkest of the dark prevail during recent generations, there is a need to illuminate and cancel out this great darkness through the greatest light of all.
2. The closer we approach the days of mashiach, when the inner nature of Torah is completely revealed, we need this kind of preparation through spreading the wellsprings outward.

From this, we can understand that with regard to our discussion as well, when faced with a destitute time and situation, and when we need to call on others and take action to perform Torah and mitzvos, this action needs to come about through studying chassidus as well. To the contrary – since the study of chassidus is tied to the idea of supreme teshuva (teshuva ila’a), it is how one can advance to a state and situation that is incomparable to the state and situation one was in previously.

B”H

 

Generations of Mamzerut

 

Shalom and thank you for your question. You wish to know basically, for how many generations does mamzerut continue, and does that Halachic (Jewish legal) status cease after said amount of generations?

Firstly, let us make sure we are on the same page regarding the Halachic definition of mamzerut. (Illegitimate child according to Jewish law.)  According to Jewish law, a mamzer is a child from a relationship which would warrant the punishment of death or of Karet, being cut off from the Jewish people. This could be someone born from a relationship of incest between brother and sister, or from a relationship between a married woman with a man to whom she is not married. Even if a woman is separated from her husband but did not yet obtain a Get – a Halachic divorce, and her legal husband is still alive, a child born from a relationship with a different man will unfortunately be considered a mamzer. This applies even if divorce proceedings have begun. In our day, since we do not have the Temple and a Sanhedrin, a special body with the authority to carry out Halachic judgement, we believe that G-d metes out reward and punishment in His own way in a person’s lifetime or in a different incarnation.

 

A child born out of wedlock to a woman who is not married does not have mamzer status, even though this is not a permissible relationship.This applies even if the woman was ritually impure, in other words, had not immersed in a mikveh, a ritual bath, after her menstruation and subsequent seven days of no bleeding. Even though having a relationship with a woman in the ritually impure state is also a sin punishable by Karet, the sages of the Talmud maintain that this is an exceptional case. Despite this being considered a less than honorable ancestry, it does not at all prevent the child from being allowed to marry even into honored families of Cohanim. (Members of the Jewish priestly tribe.)

 

Regarding the amount of generations, although it says in Deuteronomy 23:3 “A mamzer shall not enter the congregation of the L-rd (marry into the Jewish people), according to the principles by which the Torah is interpreted, we learn that actually, unfortunately, the prohibition does not end at all. This is on the basis of the next verse there which says: “Nor shall an Ammonite or a Moabite enter the congregation of the L-rd forever.” Since the 10th generation is mentioned in both of the abovementioned verses, we learn that the ‘forever’ applies in both cases as well.

 

The sages ask: “What is a distortion which cannot be rectified? That which comes about through the birth of a mamzer through forbidden relationships.” (Chagigah 9:2) A convert IS allowed to marry a mamzer, however their children will retain the mamzer status and be in the same position. Due to this a convert will be reluctant to enter such a marital bond, in order not to cause problems for their future children.

 

There IS a factor which makes all of the above a little easier to bear. Halachically, if a person’s lineage is not known for sure, there is no obligation to check it out. We are indeed living in a difficult time because the moral structure of much of western society has changed to the point where people have lost track of the basic family unit. For many people it is no longer a frame of reference. For this reason it is a relief that, as I just mentioned, there is no obligation to check out whether or not a person is a mamzer. It is also important to realize that aside from the marriage restrictions, there are no other distinctions between a mamzer and another Jew. He or she can be a scholar and a productive member of society.

 

If the mamzer is the result of a relationship between a married woman and a man to whom she was not married at the time, Rabbinical authorities should be consulted. If they find something wrong with the woman’s marriage ceremony, something that was not conducted properly according to Halacha, there may be a way to clarify the status as being kosher. In each case it is worthwhile to consult a competent Rabbi to clarify one’s status.

 

Jewish belief is that G-d created and recreates the world constantly, in order for us to do our very best to study the Torah and keep G-d’s commandments despite the challenges, and by virtue of these efforts, the world will be rectified totally and the prophet Elijah will announce the Final Redemption, when there will be no more discord and negative occurrences. We hope and pray that this will happen soon!

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