Dear Rabbi,
We are celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary next year with a full traditional wedding and reception.
Is it acceptable for me (the bride) to wear a dress of silver blue color? My original dress was white and I want to do something different to recognize the 25 year’s together. He will wear a traditional tuxedo with tallit and kippah (heirloom) and all other traditions will be followed.
Also, is it rude to ask the Rabbi to wear black with silver only? Last time I rented the tux for the Rabbi and made color requests. As you can see I’m particular but I also want to be correct, so the main question is the color of my dress.
Best regards,
Leah