There are things about my husband that are totally unacceptable. He doesn’t get along with my family, argues with them all the time, and when I point it out to him he becomes more angry and insulted.
There are other behaviors of his that I find unacceptable, and that totally do not suit a married couple.
What should I do?
There are no hard and fast rules about white shirts. In general, a white shirt is considered to be a modest but respectable garment, and a person should wear clothing that is respectable.
Also, part of the day is spent standing in prayer in front of the Creator, and this certainly warrants respectable attire.
In any case, the main thing is not the external garments, but rather the spiritual ones, namely, a person’s thought, speech, and deed. Physical clothing is only a means to the end, the goal being purity of spiritual garments.
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