Hello! I recently heard a little about “chibut hakever” and I have some questions:
Are there really sins that can ONLY be fixed through this, even if teshuvah was done in a person’s lifetime? What are those sins that require this? I also heard that it is for feeling pleasure from things in this world (even from non-sins)- although I admit I may have misunderstood… if this is true, it is “pleasure” like looking at a beautiful sunrise or looking at a cute baby, or more material things like a having a soft blanket, or a heated home in winter, or mementos from childhood?
Is there a way to avoid this? Can a person minimize it for others who have already deceased, or is it only up to each soul for itself?
Thank you for clarifying!