Q. If a person is known to be mentally unwell, and it is known that he wishes to commit suicide, and the person has been absent from home for 24 months and there has been no sign of life from him, should people begin to say Kaddish for him?
There are no hard and fast rules about white shirts. In general, a white shirt is considered to be a modest but respectable garment, and a person should wear clothing that is respectable.
Also, part of the day is spent standing in prayer in front of the Creator, and this certainly warrants respectable attire.
In any case, the main thing is not the external garments, but rather the spiritual ones, namely, a person’s thought, speech, and deed. Physical clothing is only a means to the end, the goal being purity of spiritual garments.
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